tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33550592.post822456763598557357..comments2023-10-30T07:49:53.076-06:00Comments on Chocolate Pizza Stiletto Love: Long Distance RelationshipsMichelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00782698620513388263noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33550592.post-41134328614134112132007-02-21T11:45:00.000-06:002007-02-21T11:45:00.000-06:00Tiffany - your words enlighten me, and I am foreve...Tiffany - your words enlighten me, and I am forever grateful for the 'advice' you always are so willing to offer. (Also, to clarify: Price Charming DOES travel Monday thru Friday for work, yes.) PS. I think it will work out too, it is just very frustrating to me that I sometimes feel like I'm missing out on many things that happen in his life, and vice versa. Aydame! Just a rough patch, just a rough patch...Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00782698620513388263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33550592.post-28006991335866173212007-02-21T11:40:00.000-06:002007-02-21T11:40:00.000-06:00Michele(long comment for the long distance relatio...Michele<BR/>(long comment for the long distance relationship)<BR/>Perhaps I am a little confused. You are moving in together into his apartment in Chicago, but he travels so much it is like an LDR?<BR/><BR/>Please correct me if I am wrong.<BR/><BR/>In regards to the LDR, my husband and I felt similarly when we were dating. He would go out of town a lot for his directing gigs (months at a time) and go out of town for pleasure (weeks at a time) and go out of town for his job (days at a time). <BR/><BR/>It was very hard. We didn't set a date yet for our wedding after we were engaged and he was working in NYC December-March, and he was expecting we would be married by July--with nothing planned. Many fights. Talks. And much contemplation on my part thinking, "My husband will be away months at a time when he's directing professionally and this is his goal." What about kids? Our marriage? <BR/><BR/>Needless to say, based on my posts on JailDiet, I really enjoy my time alone now. But, it's taken about 6 years of getting used to. It still frustrates me when he plans to go out of town months at a time and it still angers me when we don't get to have dinner with each other for weeks at a time--and we live together. The old kiss in the morning and he wakes me up at night when he gets home is still hard. Our theater careers have us working until the wee hours of the night.<BR/><BR/>My guess is that moving in together will bring up some of these harsh and selfish feelings on both your parts. And the best thing to do is be honest no matter how selfish you sound. And sitting on these feelings and living through them when you can't escape to your own apartment is a good thing. You're making the right step by moving in. I predict good things to happen.<BR/><BR/>It just takes time.ioiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16326983167964936939noreply@blogger.com